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1995 · California, United States

Sally & Ray McNeil

The story behind Killer Sally

Sally McNeil shot her husband, bodybuilder Ray McNeil, on Valentine’s Day in 1995. She said she acted in self-defense during a violent confrontation; prosecutors argued that the killing was murder. A jury convicted her of second-degree murder. The case centered on sharply competing accounts of domestic abuse and the shooting.

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When1995
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Sarah Witherspoon · Substack

DSOTG #3: Sally McNeil, "Killer Sally"

A commentary essay revisits Sally McNeil’s story and the conflicting accounts surrounding Ray McNeil’s death.

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Killer Sally

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10 Minute Murder

10 Minute Murder — The Sally McNeil Story

Direct episode about the McNeil case, including the marriage and competing accounts of the shooting.

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True Crime Psychology and Personality: Narcissism, Psychopathy, and the Minds of Dangerous Criminals

Sally McNeil | Bodybuilding Couple Have Homicidal Valentine's Day

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released December 30, 2022. About 21 minutes.

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Moms and Mysteries: A True Crime Podcast

The Murder of Raymond McNeil

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released December 13, 2022. About 79 minutes.

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Bad Sports: Sally "Killer" McNeil

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released April 8, 2019. About 27 minutes.

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Sally McNeil, "Killer Sally | MURDERISH Ep. 43

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released October 28, 2019. About 57 minutes.

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Housewives of True Crime

Bodybuilding, Betrayal, and Murder in Oceanside, CA: The Killer Sally/Sally McNeil Case

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released November 28, 2022. About 58 minutes.

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CALIFORNIA: Ray & Sally McNeil

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released March 11, 2024. About 36 minutes.

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Bloody Happy Hour

Episode 196: Sally McNeil

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released June 20, 2025. About 40 minutes.

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Muscles, Marriage, and Murder: The Sally McNeil Story

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released June 10, 2025. About 11 minutes.

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Sally McNeil - Killer Sally - USA

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released February 6, 2024. About 39 minutes.

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EP.29 Sally McNeil AKA Killer Sally

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released August 5, 2025. About 44 minutes.

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CRIMES & SPORT | L'affaire Sally McNeil, le massacre de la Saint Valentin : le dernier combat de Killer Sally (4/4)

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released February 15, 2025. About 14 minutes.

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Two Aliens - Killer Sally: The Saga of Sally McNeil

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released November 23, 2025. About 26 minutes.

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Ep 34. Sally McNeil "Killer Sally"

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released February 14, 2023. About 82 minutes.

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sally mcneil aka killer sally

Podcast coverage of the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Released May 5, 2023. About 22 minutes.

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CBS 8 San Diego

Body builder Sally McNeil court appearances in 1995 and 1996

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Killer Sally | Official Trailer | Netflix

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Why Did ‘Killer Sally’ Shoot Her Bodybuilder Husband?

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Search reviewed 2026-09-16. Sources searched: Google Books, Internet Archive, Open Library, Library of Congress, Smithsonian Magazine, The Atavist Magazine, Google Books (case/title search), Scribd, Everand, OverDrive and hoopla (combined title search). Search indexing is incomplete; this is not an exhaustive list of the web. Access can change by edition, country and library membership. Library loans may require sign-in or a wait. Everand titles may need a paid subscription; a trial is not permanent free access. Scribd documents are third-party uploads, with uploader details noted where checked. We link to source pages and write our own descriptions rather than reproducing copyrighted books.

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North County Times · 1996-03-09 · Page 20

Sally McNeil’s daughter testifies

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McNeil v. Middleton — federal review after remand

The Ninth Circuit’s decision after Supreme Court review, examining jury instructions on self-defense and battered-woman syndrome in Sally McNeil’s case.

Court / agency
U.S. Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit
Document date
March 29, 2005
Case / citation
402 F.3d 920
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